Life-Giving Relationships After Complex Trauma
From Somatic Trauma Therapy to Decolonizing Book Clubs, Let’s Heal the Root of Harmful Relationship Patterns
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Founder: Elizabeth DeVaughn, LPC-MHSP
Hi & welcome!
I’m a licensed psychotherapist, somatic practitioner, licensure supervisor, and complex trauma + relationship specialist. RR&R™ was born from a decade of clinical support with domestic violence victims. Power & control, justice, and a return to cultural and lineage magic. Read more, and I’m so glad you’re here ❤️
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Podcast Coming Soon!
THE RELATIONSHIP SKELETON KEY™
For the morbid science nerd obsessed with how relationship patterns form, shift, and heal, The Relationship Skeleton Key Podcast will examine at the intersection of science, history, myth
Healing relationship patterns born from complex trauma
FROM POWER-OVER TO POWER-WITH
Talk about relationship patterns, how they form; attachment and somatic / nervous system science. Macro and micro, healing at the deepest root. Here’s what we’re doing, and how we see that it works. What is RR&R about, primary goal, focus
Your Relationship Pattern Healing Starts Here
Services
Psychotherapy + Somatic Sessions
Liberation-centered 1:1 psychotherapy, Somatic Experiencing/trauma sessions, intimate therapeutic groups, and relational therapy.
Read Like a Witchᵀᴹ
Somatic + justice-oriented book study group for kooky, spooky, cat (and dog) ladies!
Vamp Campᵀᴹ
A collaboration with our dear friend Wayward Pixie, Vamp Camp™
Ready for relationships that are life-giving 🌹 instead of depleting? 🥀
(But starting to doubt that that even exists…?)
Do you find yourself always taking the blame in the relationship + the one who always ends up doing “the work?”
No matter how much social time, you may have an undercurrent of loneliness and longing for depth
You may have a new partner, and it’s going well! You think… but you’re perpetually unsure if you’re reacting to them or old trauma
You don’t want to repeat old patterns, and you definitely don’t want to pass them along to your kids
Already done so much therapy & self-awareness work, but still not seeing actual results?
Thought you delt with this relationship pattern already?
Sensitive, empathic, fiery, (maybe even spiritually gifted), & a penchant for collective justice?
Looking for a grounded, scientific approach that includes a return to ancestral practices + magic?
Do you survive the summer with spooky movies and wishing it would thunderstorm?
Recovering “good girl?”
Outgrowing former friends (and haven’t filled the gap with new friends yet)?
We thought we liked you.
You’re if Morticia, Ms. Frizzle, & RBG had a baby
If you resonate with any of this, we would love to get to know you. Download below.
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Vamp Campᵀᴹ
HEALING BODILY + SEXUAL SHAME WITH TRAUMA-INFORMED BURLESQUE & PLAY
Nervous system healing meets burlesque, belly dance, crafts, and play. Up-all-night sleepover vibes. Pack your bags; see you at Camp! 🍭✨
“Heal. So we don’t have another generation of trauma passing itself off as culture.”
— Leslie Priscilla
Somatic, Relational, Justice-Oriented Book Club for Spooky Science Nerds
Read Like a Witchᵀᴹ
Love book clubs but want to go deeper?
Wild Beast Embodiment & Dance Parties
The ROARᵀᴹ
Return to your wild instincts. Create more safety in your body to set boundaries. Move, dance.
What We Stand For
The Decolonial Foundations that Guide Us
Next sections: blog
(more on Inner Healing page?) what does relationship pattern healing look like?: Not feeling so led in relationships by fear of rejection or people-pleasing, but from your actual, authentic self; recovering from the effects of dv & going on to have fulfilling, reciprocal relationships; being able to have more capacity in relationships to hold complexity, not run right out the door at first hint of conflict
RR&R pillars (About / Method page): total sovereignty; sovereignty/autonomy, personal authority through the body; total liberation for all beings, veganism as including animals and planet in the fight for total liberation; nature, coming back to natural cycles and seasons; ever practicing power-with instead of power-over
Method — healing power/control relationship patterns through somatic methods, nature, etc.
You’re more Morticia than ___. If you were a Barbie… You’re if __ and __ had a baby | you’re like if Morticia, Miss Frizzle, and RBG had a baby | You’re like if a haunted, Victorian doll; You’re more haunted Victorian doll than (Barbie? Hot girl summer?); You’re like___ Barbie | ok, if you’ve read this far, you must be as weird as we are, what book are you reading?
(potential clients say things like) I really don’t want to pass these patterns along to my kids;
What keeps them up at 2am - is my relationship workable? (list it out like this when I list areas of focus (dv, religious trauma, etc.?) )
Services / offerings — 1:1 therapy & SE sessions, Read Like a Witch, Vamp Camp (in collab with Wayward Pixie), licensure supervision, The Roar
For weird, spooky, pissed off cat folk
(homepage) link to Podcast, Pinterest, Blogs, RR&R method
You’re like if Morticia studied neuroscience and protested for Trans rights while listening to 80’s rock
goal for homepage / website — newsletter | blogs, places on homepage, etc., lead to freebie/newsletter
Homepage — the goal of RR&R:
Who are our clients: me, belonging, dv, think of my closest clients
Being ME ❤️; personal shares, why this work matters to me, my personal journey belonging, feeling dead from trauma; more explanation about my trainings and mentorship
What We Stand For
The Decolonial Foundations that Guide Us
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I’m a white-bodied human animal & psychotherapist on a mission to help heal the root cause of oppression-based relationship patterns, such as from the effects of domestic violence. To heal these patterns at the deepest root level, I believe this also means standing for collective liberation for all humxns, animals, and the Earth. Micro and macro.
To be congruent with this personal and professional goal, I make every, ever-evolving effort in my business and brand to be anti-genocide, anti-ableist, anti-racist, anti-anthropocentric, and gender-affirming. I strive to be a welcome, safe, and inclusive space for all genders, gender identities, bodies, bodies of culture, ability levels, sexual orientations, and religious beliefs. Rose, Raven & Roar™ is a completely vegan and cruelty-free business and brand.
For myself, I make continual efforts to examine and heal internal imprints and conditionings of white supremacy, including complicity and collusion with a system that has kept Black, Brown, Indigenous, LGBTQIA+, and bodies with disabilities down.
Complex Relationship Trauma Healing, from the Nervous System to Collective Justice
FOR WEIRD, SPOOKY, PISSED OFF CAT LADIES
Something’s stirring within you. We understand that healing the deepest root cause of old, lopsided, harm-based relationship patterns means not only looking deeply on the inside, but also a deep look at the outside (power-over systems, structures, the history
Complex relationship trauma healing, from the nervous system to collective justice. For weird, spooky, pissed of cat ladies.
Areas of Specialty
AKA, what we can’t wait to help you with
Domestic Violence
Currently surviving abuse must be treated much differently than outside of abuse. I would love to support you.
New Relationship Patterns
From setting (and keeping) new boundaries, to forging new family relationships, I got you… I am you.
Complex Trauma
It’s all in the nervous system. With gentle methods that work with your body instead of against it, we can do this.
Spirituality, Religious Trauma + Purity Culture
From spiritual abuse, to finding your autonomous place within your religion, to, “am I a Witch?”, I would love to help.
Family Relationships
New relationship patterns = “showing” the nervous system that it’s safe to have something it never had. Let’s do this.
Nervous System Regulation
Talk therapy helped, and it got you here. But you’re done messing around. Time for the root cause in the body, now.
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