Life-Giving Relationships After Complex Trauma
From Somatic Trauma Therapy to Decolonizing Book Clubs & Activism, Let’s Heal the Root of Harmful Relationship Patterns
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Founder: Elizabeth DeVaughn, LPC-MHSP
Hi & Welcome ❤️
I’m so grateful you’re here. I’m a licensed psychotherapist, somatic practitioner, licensure supervisor, and complex trauma + relationship specialist. RR&R™ was born from over a decade of supporting domestic violence survivors, plus my own journey through complex trauma and fearing that I would never belong. I believed that the work could go much deeper than school (and licensure) taught me, so here we are.
Grab your cat blanket and favorite herbal tea. Let’s go layers deeper.
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Podcast Coming Soon!
THE RELATIONSHIP SKELETON KEY™
For the morbid science nerd obsessed with how relationship patterns form, shift, and heal, The Relationship Skeleton Key Podcast will examine at the intersection of science, history, myth
Healing relationship patterns born from complex trauma
FROM POWER-OVER TO POWER-WITH
Survival responses stuck in the body, traumatic family dynamics, and survival-based attachment blueprints. That’s a big part of it, but not all.
Growing somatic capacity to hold complexity, emotion, differences while staying in the room, deconstructing the power-over nature of white supremacy and healing the belonging trauma underneath, unraveling the hierarchal idea that we’re separate from the natural world, integrating exiled parts of ourselves, psyche (archetypes), deemed bad by systems of domination, (spooky: darkness, magical/intuitive, more fluid ways of knowing
Relationship Pattern Healing from the INSIDE Out
Services & Programs
Complex Trauma Therapy
Liberation-centered clinical psychotherapy, Somatic Experiencing® sessions, therapeutic groups, and relational therapy to heal complex trauma for deep relationship pattern healing
TN Licensure Supervision
Liberation-centered clinical psychotherapy, Somatic Experiencing® sessions, intimate therapeutic groups, and relational therapy to address deep complex relational trauma resolution
Read Like a Witchᵀᴹ
Love book clubs, but wanna go deeper? RLW is a body-centered, justice-oriented book club to deconstruct traumatic relationship patterns from the inside out. Slow, yummy, somatic, & relational.
The ROARᵀᴹ
Liberation-centered clinical psychotherapy, Somatic Experiencing® sessions, intimate therapeutic groups, and relational therapy to address deep complex relational trauma resolution
Vamp Campᵀᴹ
A collaboration with our dear friend Wayward Pixie, Vamp Camp™
The Lairᵀᴹ
Liberation-centered clinical psychotherapy, Somatic Experiencing® sessions, intimate therapeutic groups, and relational therapy to address deep complex relational trauma resolution
Relationship Pattern Healing from the OUTSIDE In
Witches for Total Liberationᵀᴹ
RLW is our dedicated space for taking direct action toward systemic liberation of all bodies, and to return to reciprocal relationship with our natural world. Macro rel pattern healing
“Heal. So we don’t have another generation of trauma passing itself off as culture.”
— Leslie Priscilla
Our clients are re-writing relationship patterns
They’re also kooky, spooky, and pissed off (for good reason). We’re obsessed.
The folx we serve are healing from domestic violence, interpersonal violence, complex relational trauma, parasitic relationships, high control religion and purity culture
Talk from me, authentic <3 Deepest longing is for deep, true belonging; to not be so scared in relationships
We See You.
You’re if Morticia, Ms. Frizzle, & RBG had a baby
If you resonate with any of this, we would love to support you. Download your free bundle below.
Latest on the Blog
Vamp Campᵀᴹ
Healing Sexual Shame Through Burlesque & Play
Nervous system healing meets burlesque, belly dance, crafts & more. Up-all-night sleepover vibes. Pack your bags; see you at Camp! 🍭✨
What We Stand For
See Our Full Healing + Justice Statement
Clinical & Therapeutic Areas of Focus and Specialized Training
Specialties
Relational Violence
Domestic violence, interpersonal violence, sexual trauma, and childhood trauma
Developing New Relationship Patterns
From setting (and keeping) new boundaries, to forging new family relationships, I got you… I am you.
Complex Trauma
It’s all in the nervous system. With gentle methods that work with your body instead of against it, we can do this.
Religious Trauma + Purity Culture
From spiritual abuse, to finding your autonomous place within your religion, to, “am I a Witch?”, I would love to help.
Navigating Family Relationships
New relationship patterns = “showing” the nervous system that it’s safe to have something it never had. Let’s do this.
Autonomy in Spirituality
Talk therapy helped, and it got you here. But you’re done messing around. Time for the root cause in the body, now.
Somatic, Relational, Justice-Oriented Book Club for Spooky Science Nerds
Read Like a Witchᵀᴹ
Love book clubs but want to go deeper?
The ROARᵀᴹ
Wild Beast Dance Parties
Return to your wild instincts. Create more safety in your body to set boundaries and to say “no.” Move, dance, ROAR.
If you’ve made it this far…
You’re more haunted Victorian doll than hot girl summer. We have a gift for you.
Final note and invitation to newsletter/freebie bundle (we’d love to support you if you’ve resonated with this). Genuine contact, also humor and sarcasm b/c that’s also genuine.
So if you’re giving ____ instead of _____
Next sections: blog
(more on Inner Healing page?) what does relationship pattern healing look like?: Not feeling so led in relationships by fear of rejection or people-pleasing, but from your actual, authentic self; recovering from the effects of dv & going on to have fulfilling, reciprocal relationships; being able to have more capacity in relationships to hold complexity, not run right out the door at first hint of conflict
RR&R pillars (About / Method page): total sovereignty; sovereignty/autonomy, personal authority through the body; total liberation for all beings, veganism as including animals and planet in the fight for total liberation; nature, coming back to natural cycles and seasons; ever practicing power-with instead of power-over
Method — healing power/control relationship patterns through somatic methods, nature, etc.
You’re more Morticia than ___. If you were a Barbie… You’re if __ and __ had a baby | you’re like if Morticia, Miss Frizzle, and RBG had a baby | You’re like if a haunted, Victorian doll; You’re more haunted Victorian doll than (Barbie? Hot girl summer?); You’re like___ Barbie | ok, if you’ve read this far, you must be as weird as we are, what book are you reading? | These can also be on merch, shirts, other pages
(potential clients say things like) I really don’t want to pass these patterns along to my kids;
What keeps them up at 2am - is my relationship workable? (list it out like this when I list areas of focus (dv, religious trauma, etc.?) )
Services / offerings — 1:1 therapy & SE sessions, Read Like a Witch, Vamp Camp (in collab with Wayward Pixie), licensure supervision, The Roar
For weird, spooky, pissed off cat folk
(homepage) link to Podcast, Pinterest, Blogs, RR&R method
You’re like if Morticia studied neuroscience and protested for Trans rights while listening to 80’s rock
goal for homepage / website — newsletter | blogs, places on homepage, etc., lead to freebie/newsletter
Homepage — the goal of RR&R:
Who are our clients: me, belonging, dv, think of my closest clients
Our clients: have maybe been harmed by / outgrown other therapies, now very discerning & scour every inch of therapy pages at 2am (so do we)
Being ME ❤️; personal shares, why this work matters to me, my personal journey belonging, feeling dead from trauma; more explanation about my trainings and mentorship
From “Healing relationship patterns born from complex trauma” section on homepage: Talk about relationship patterns, how they form; attachment and somatic / nervous system science. Macro and micro, healing at the deepest root. Here’s what we’re doing, and how we see that it works. What is RR&R about, primary goal, focus
to be in more authenticity and less sales-y, maybe “the clients we support are “ instead of “are you tired of…?”
What we stand for page - justice statement, how we view healing (inner + outer)
Specialties section - button to a page that talks about each specialty (dv, etc.; educational, maybe leads to a blog post which then leads to freebie/newsletter), and on that page, list buttons to both freebie (if you’d like resources to go deeper in this, we have a free cheat sheet as part of a bigger bundle) and our therapy/somatic sessions page (if you want to learn more about how we hold space for/approach this kind of healing
Explain clearly on freebie sign-up that they’ll be added to our newsletter; clear, consensual
1:1 clinical + therapeutic session page: we strive to hold containers that allow for deeper relational, somatic healing (more here… roots of deep belonging, the earth; we think systemically, we don’t get to the core of things with techniques only) without the pathologizing and structures that reinforce and uphold systems of oppression, power-over, hierarchy, white supremacy, etc. | we recognize that the founding of western psych is build on appropriation, whiteness | therapeutic work based in soul, reconnection with our bodies, wild, land, ancestral healing, ritual, therapeutic and clinical tools available to help if that’s what would be most supportive
*In all of this, ground into me, my body, (easy to get into comparison, lose my center, copy what others say), remember what drives me, connect with my core, go hike <3
all email sign-up buttons — “check your promotional/spam folders; move it to your inbox” in post-submit
1:1 page
framework: micro + macro,
Ready for relationships that are life-giving 🌹 instead of depleting? 🥀
(But starting to doubt that that even exists…?)
Do you find yourself always taking the blame in the relationship + the one who always ends up doing “the work?”
No matter how much social time, you may have an undercurrent of loneliness and longing for depth
You may have a new partner, and it’s going well! You think… but you’re perpetually unsure if you’re reacting to them or old trauma
You don’t want to repeat old patterns, and you definitely don’t want to pass them along to your kids
Already done so much therapy & self-awareness work, but still not seeing actual results?
Thought you delt with this relationship pattern already?
Sensitive, empathic, fiery, (maybe even spiritually gifted), & a penchant for collective justice?
Looking for a grounded, scientific approach that includes a return to ancestral practices + magic?
Do you survive the summer with spooky movies and wishing it would thunderstorm?
Recovering “good girl?”
Outgrowing former friends (and haven’t filled the gap with new friends yet)?
We thought we liked you.
You’re if Morticia, Ms. Frizzle, & RBG had a baby
If you resonate with any of this, we would love to get to know you. Download below.
What We Stand For
The Decolonial Foundations that Guide Us
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I’m a white-bodied human animal & psychotherapist on a mission to help heal the root cause of oppression-based relationship patterns, such as from the effects of domestic violence. To heal these patterns at the deepest root level, I believe this also means standing for collective liberation for all humxns, animals, and the Earth. Micro and macro.
To be congruent with this personal and professional goal, I make every, ever-evolving effort in my business and brand to be anti-genocide, anti-ableist, anti-racist, anti-anthropocentric, and gender-affirming. I strive to be a welcome, safe, and inclusive space for all genders, gender identities, bodies, bodies of culture, ability levels, sexual orientations, and religious beliefs. Rose, Raven & Roar™ is a completely vegan and cruelty-free business and brand.
For myself, I make continual efforts to examine and heal internal imprints and conditionings of white supremacy, including complicity and collusion with a system that has kept Black, Brown, Indigenous, LGBTQIA+, and bodies with disabilities down.
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